MOONLIGHT CANDY BLOG


Die Moonlight Candy Span kry gereeld boodskappe van dames wie nuuskierig is oor ons speelgoed, maar dit is hul eerste keer dat hulle oorweeg om een te koop. Dit kan intimiderend of oorweldigend wees want hoe weet jy wat om te kies? Sê nou dit is te groot, of te klein, of my maat hou nie daarvan nie?


So om hierdie dames gerus te stel en ‘n bietjie leiding te gee gaan ons 5 van ons gunsteling wenke met jou deel wanneer dit kom by jou eerste seks speelding.


1. Leer eers jouself ken...met jou vingers


Miskien het jy al en is gereed om aan te beweeg na iets meganies. Maar as jy nog nie het nie, is dit ‘n goeie idee om te weet waarvan jy hou voor jy iets gaan soek om mee verder te speel. Dit is al hoe jy sal weet watse tipe speelding om te kies. En onthou, jy hoef dit nie alleen te doen nie!


2. Dit hoef nie soos ‘n tottie te lyk nie


Jy hoef nie noodwendig weg te bly van speelgoed wat lyk soos ‘n penis nie, maar besef dat daar is hordes speelgoed wat die werk gedoen gaan kry wat GLAD NIE soos ‘n meneer se “meneer” lyk nie. Baie van die speelgoed is spesiaal ontwerp volgens die vrou se anatomie en wat die gemaklikste vir haar sal wees.


3. Begin klein


As iemand wat begin is dit dalk ‘n goeie idee om met iets minder intimiderend te begin. Jou maat sal waarskynlik ook minder bedreig voel. Speelgoed wat gemaak is vir uitwendige gebruik is gewoonlik kleiner (soos “wands” en “stimulators”), maar daar is ook kleiner weergawes van die wat vir binne bedoel is of beide binne en buite.


4. Koop iets ordentlik


Doen jou navorsing. Dit hoef nie iets duur te wees nie, in teendeel, begin dalk met ietsie goedkoper. Maar maak net seker die kwaliteit is goed. Baie belangrik om seker te maak dit is van ‘n goeie gehalte materiaal. Waterdig is ook goed om te hê, veral as jy van plan is om in die stort te speel. En jy wil ook nie elke week nuwe batterye koop nie, so soek maar een wat herlaaibaar is. Kyk ook of die materiaal nie dalk iets is waarvoor jy allergies kan wees nie, maar gewoonlik is mediese-graad silikon en glas goeie opsies.


5. Jy kan altyd nog een koop


Moenie jou kop breek as jy nie weet of jy die regte keuse gemaak het nie. Die goed raak nie op nie. Soos jy eksperimenteer sal jou gou agterkom waar jou knoppies sit en hoe om hulle te druk. Onthou dit is jou EERSTE speelding en dit hoef nie jou laaste te wees nie. Begin ‘n versameling en gaan hê ‘n avontuur!


- Die Moonlight Candy Span

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*Your favourite music* = a shortcut to a powerful pleasure tidal wave!⁣

You probably kinda knew this already, but science has now revealed what actually happens to our brains when we hear our jam! You know what it’s like. It doesn’t matter if you’re...

  • In the car⁣

  • At a concert⁣

  • In the kitchen⁣

  • At church

  • In the club

  • Or even in bed⁣...

You hear the opening chords of your favourite song and you’re suddenly flooded with emotion and memories, and there’s an electrifying tingle running through your body – it’s impossible to ignore… you are captivated! Arghh I love it!⁣

If you’re nodding along with me, you’re in the (approx.) 50% of people who experience *pleasurable chills* when listening to your favourite music. (Lucky us!!).⁣

French neuroscientists used a high-density EEG to map brain activity while people listened to their favourite music and their findings were published in a recent study.⁣

They discovered that specific brain areas work together to process music, triggering the reward system and increasing dopamine release. Now that sounds like an orchestrated symphony of delight that I can get behind!⁣

Just imagine adding this powerful layer of pleasure to your bedroom activities!! Yes, please!! I am totally against technology in the bedroom, but a bluetooth speaker is the exception to that rule. Why not create a playlist of your favourite songs to help you get in the mood for loving? Then you can ride that pleasure tidal wave while you get it on!


So, the next time you find yourself enraptured by an awesome tune while you stir dinner, remember that 50% of people might think you’re totally crazy - but the other 50% are right there with you!

I’d love to hear which songs get you going. Let me know in the comments.


- Lisa Welsh


Lisa is a Sexual Empowerment and Pleasure Coach who helps people to overcome sexual shame and insecurities so that they can step into their true orgasmic nature.


More from Lisa at her website ( www.itslisawelsh.com ) or Instagram ( www.instagram.com/itslisawelsh )


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Did you know that by the age of 35 around 95% of your thoughts 🧠 are just a loop that is repeated on autopilot?⁣

Unless you are consciously open to receiving new information without judgement, your brain will filter everything you see/experience/read/hear through what you *already know to be true.*⁣


Want to peek into your thought loops? Ask yourself these questions...

👉 What outdated/inaccurate stories have you been telling yourself for years?⁣

👉 How do you think that impacts the way you see yourself as a sexual being? ⁣

👉 How do you think that impacts the way you respond to your lover?⁣

Here’s a reframe for you: You can *give yourself permission* to wipe your slate clean of those old thoughts so that you can live a new reality - one that will feel infinitely better for you. Here’s an exercise to get you started:⁣

🖊️ Begin by journaling on the 3 questions above. Allow yourself to write without editing and see what comes up for you. ⁣

😢 Feel any feelings that arise as you write. Allow emotions to bubble up and be released.⁣

💖 Breathe into your heart and affirm that you are ready to see a new reality. One that isn’t limited to what you have believed for all these years.⁣

💫 Next time you notice an old thought pop up, don’t beat yourself up. Gently observe it and then choose a different thought that works for you and the life you want for yourself.⁣

It’s time to stop playing small and pretending you don’t know how powerful you truly are - in the bedroom and beyond. No more lying to yourself. No more acting as though you aren’t worthy.⁣

You are infinitely powerful, it’s time to reclaim that truth!


I’d love to know which of these ideas most appeals to you? Let me know in the comments!


- Lisa Welsh


Lisa is a Sexual Empowerment and Pleasure Coach who helps people to overcome sexual shame and insecurities so that they can step into their true orgasmic nature.


More from Lisa at her website ( www.itslisawelsh.com ) or Instagram ( www.instagram.com/itslisawelsh )

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